Comments for Why all things lead to chaos http://cluelessness.wordpress.com No answers, just more questions Thu, 12 Nov 2009 23:34:24 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on My dog is a drama queen by alwayshappykya http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/my-dog-is-a-drama-queen/#comment-469 alwayshappykya Thu, 12 Nov 2009 23:34:24 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-469 Awww...I just want to bundle him up and cuddle ..and pour hundreds of kisses on his cutie soft face NOW! Times like these I wish H was a little more open minded about having pets..I adore them while he tries to run away :( <em>Clueless: Why don't you just stop by sometime?? Rummy LOVES having company :)</em> Awww…I just want to bundle him up and cuddle ..and pour hundreds of kisses on his cutie soft face NOW!

Times like these I wish H was a little more open minded about having pets..I adore them while he tries to run away :(

Clueless: Why don’t you just stop by sometime?? Rummy LOVES having company :)

]]> Comment on My dog is a drama queen by The Print Lover http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/my-dog-is-a-drama-queen/#comment-468 The Print Lover Thu, 12 Nov 2009 21:17:09 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-468 LOL! This is a funny tale and you've narrated it very well. Every time I come and read 2-3 posts in a shot, leave a comment and leave. I should come here regularly. LOL! This is a funny tale and you’ve narrated it very well.

Every time I come and read 2-3 posts in a shot, leave a comment and leave. I should come here regularly.

]]> Comment on Sprinting to the finish line by comfortablynam http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/07/sprinting-to-the-finish-line/#comment-467 comfortablynam Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:11:53 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=192#comment-467 I think it definitely has been ingrained in the women in India to not complain..things like bearing discomfort during pregnancy without any complain what with every other women going through the same..you are not special and the men folks really don’t need to what you are going through. But I truly think every women and every pregnancy is different and you have to look at what you are going through and work accordingly..and the man in your life needs to know the pain you go through :) <em>Clueless: To all those men who say it is just another pregnancy...we should ask them to pee out one small stone and see how it goes - considering that we are literally bringing out melons :) Someone needs to remind them that it is "just another" thing until it happens to you!</em> I think it definitely has been ingrained in the women in India to not complain..things like bearing discomfort during pregnancy without any complain what with every other women going through the same..you are not special and the men folks really don’t need to what you are going through. But I truly think every women and every pregnancy is different and you have to look at what you are going through and work accordingly..and the man in your life needs to know the pain you go through :)

Clueless: To all those men who say it is just another pregnancy…we should ask them to pee out one small stone and see how it goes – considering that we are literally bringing out melons :) Someone needs to remind them that it is “just another” thing until it happens to you!

]]> Comment on My dog is a drama queen by divz http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/my-dog-is-a-drama-queen/#comment-466 divz Thu, 12 Nov 2009 13:29:47 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-466 awww you making me have a one way love affair with Rummy now! :-) <em>Clueless: Rummy always loves back....he is a true Casanova that way!</em> awww
you making me have a one way love affair with Rummy now!
:-)

Clueless: Rummy always loves back….he is a true Casanova that way!

]]> Comment on My dog is a drama queen by La Vida Loca http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/my-dog-is-a-drama-queen/#comment-465 La Vida Loca Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:01:32 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-465 lol will be soo interesting to see the baby join this mix. <em>Clueless: Interesting?? that is the best case scenario I am hoping for!</em> lol
will be soo interesting to see the baby join this mix.

Clueless: Interesting?? that is the best case scenario I am hoping for!

]]> Comment on My dog is a drama queen by chroniclesofdee http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/my-dog-is-a-drama-queen/#comment-464 chroniclesofdee Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:58:41 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-464 lol lol lol lol Hell, that was drama queen personified.. I cannot believe he did that!! Goldie whines at anyone who goes into the bathroom and when they come out she is soo relieved that she starts going in circles.. Maybe she is scared that they may fall down the toilet :D <em>Clueless: LOL!! Goldie is a very concerned dog, she wants to make sure the guests are peeing properly hehehe</em> lol lol lol lol

Hell, that was drama queen personified.. I cannot believe he did that!!

Goldie whines at anyone who goes into the bathroom and when they come out she is soo relieved that she starts going in circles..
Maybe she is scared that they may fall down the toilet :D

Clueless: LOL!! Goldie is a very concerned dog, she wants to make sure the guests are peeing properly hehehe

]]> Comment on My dog is a drama queen by soin http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/my-dog-is-a-drama-queen/#comment-463 soin Thu, 12 Nov 2009 03:23:11 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-463 if only all drama queens can quit it after 15 mins.. the dog looks lazy.. my frnd dog is quite similar.. if anyone comes it just raises it head and goes back to sleep..free <em>Clueless: Mine is excited for approximately 30 seconds when someone comes home...he brings them his toys and everything. And after that he couldn't care less..lol</em> if only all drama queens can quit it after 15 mins.. the dog looks lazy.. my frnd dog is quite similar.. if anyone comes it just raises it head and goes back to sleep..free

Clueless: Mine is excited for approximately 30 seconds when someone comes home…he brings them his toys and everything. And after that he couldn’t care less..lol

]]> Comment on Sprinting to the finish line by AverageJane http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/07/sprinting-to-the-finish-line/#comment-462 AverageJane Tue, 10 Nov 2009 18:52:52 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=192#comment-462 I agree about women multitasking and assuming superhero persona(s) but I think preggers in India are pampered beyond belief. Like when I used to tell people in India that I'm driving in my 5th month, believe me or not, they used to be shocked and out would come a lecture on how I should relax and let the hubby take over. I never ventured to tell them that I drove and did most of the stuff I usually do till the very last day not because the hubby didn't want to help but because I felt great (touchwood) and couldn't sit around doing nothing. Also I'm happy when I hear that things have changed in hospitals in Bangalore. Many of my friends' husbands were *allowed* to play as big a part as they wanted in their pregnancies. :) Liked you last line very much. :) <em>Clueless: So glad to hear that things are different in India now and the father can also be a very involved participant. For me though, with my nearly 5 months of morning sickness and not so small iron deficiency, I need to listen to my body and take a break when needed. Even the pampering part in India was mostly done by MIL / mom. Rarely did the FIL or husband get affected in their daily routines. And also, somehow I think it is ok to be doing work and then people suggesting I take a break, but not OK for them that I decided there are some things I cannot do and need a break. </em> I agree about women multitasking and assuming superhero persona(s) but I think preggers in India are pampered beyond belief. Like when I used to tell people in India that I’m driving in my 5th month, believe me or not, they used to be shocked and out would come a lecture on how I should relax and let the hubby take over. I never ventured to tell them that I drove and did most of the stuff I usually do till the very last day not because the hubby didn’t want to help but because I felt great (touchwood) and couldn’t sit around doing nothing. Also I’m happy when I hear that things have changed in hospitals in Bangalore. Many of my friends’ husbands were *allowed* to play as big a part as they wanted in their pregnancies. :) Liked you last line very much. :)

Clueless: So glad to hear that things are different in India now and the father can also be a very involved participant. For me though, with my nearly 5 months of morning sickness and not so small iron deficiency, I need to listen to my body and take a break when needed. Even the pampering part in India was mostly done by MIL / mom. Rarely did the FIL or husband get affected in their daily routines. And also, somehow I think it is ok to be doing work and then people suggesting I take a break, but not OK for them that I decided there are some things I cannot do and need a break.

]]> Comment on Sprinting to the finish line by alwayshappykya http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/07/sprinting-to-the-finish-line/#comment-460 alwayshappykya Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:55:50 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=192#comment-460 Woohoo girl, here is a virtual standing applause for you! :) You said it right..and so beautifully.Pregnancy is not rosy all the time, and that needs to be accepted and acknowledged. Am in a stage right now where the 'kicks' are not painful..but a pleasant feel of relief to know that the baby is growing, live and active inside. A sense of reconfirmation. But, I have heard ( and now know from you too) that the kicks graduate to being painful @ later stages. Ok..( pumping up muscles)..will be prepared :D " have 10 more weeks to go before I become a parent forever." - that line got me goosebumps. Time FLIES..literally! <em>Clueless: Hey MTB! For me, kicks are the most reassuring thing - I don't have to wait for my appointment to check the heartbeat. Every time baby moves inside me, I know everything is Ok :) You are in the butterflies stage, a little more time and the kicks will get stronger. And then they will be ticklish, weird or just plain painful depending on where and how :D</em> Woohoo girl, here is a virtual standing applause for you! :)

You said it right..and so beautifully.Pregnancy is not rosy all the time, and that needs to be accepted and acknowledged.

Am in a stage right now where the ‘kicks’ are not painful..but a pleasant feel of relief to know that the baby is growing, live and active inside. A sense of reconfirmation.

But, I have heard ( and now know from you too) that the kicks graduate to being painful @ later stages. Ok..( pumping up muscles)..will be prepared :D

” have 10 more weeks to go before I become a parent forever.” – that line got me goosebumps. Time FLIES..literally!

Clueless: Hey MTB! For me, kicks are the most reassuring thing – I don’t have to wait for my appointment to check the heartbeat. Every time baby moves inside me, I know everything is Ok :) You are in the butterflies stage, a little more time and the kicks will get stronger. And then they will be ticklish, weird or just plain painful depending on where and how :D

]]> Comment on Sprinting to the finish line by DewdropDream http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/2009/11/07/sprinting-to-the-finish-line/#comment-459 DewdropDream Sat, 07 Nov 2009 20:08:28 +0000 http://cluelessness.wordpress.com/?p=192#comment-459 And again, we agree! Something very vaguely related ... that woman who tweeted about her miscarriage wrote an article after it. I'm paraphrasing here, she basically asked why women are expected to show/have only certain emotions for things like pregnancies and miscarriages, abortions even and who determines these emotions and their correctness? Worth a read: http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2009/nov/06/penelope-trunk-tweet-miscarriage <em> Clueless: Thanks DDD for the link. I too resent that we can only react to some things in a particular way only.We are SUPPOSED to enjoy every part of my pregnancy including the morning sickness. It is not that I love my baby any less, but really, how does one enjoy barfing every hour on the hour?</em> And again, we agree!

Something very vaguely related … that woman who tweeted about her miscarriage wrote an article after it. I’m paraphrasing here, she basically asked why women are expected to show/have only certain emotions for things like pregnancies and miscarriages, abortions even and who determines these emotions and their correctness? Worth a read: http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2009/nov/06/penelope-trunk-tweet-miscarriage

Clueless: Thanks DDD for the link. I too resent that we can only react to some things in a particular way only.We are SUPPOSED to enjoy every part of my pregnancy including the morning sickness. It is not that I love my baby any less, but really, how does one enjoy barfing every hour on the hour?

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